Pride and Humility - a modern choice with ancient roots
A study on the modern "virtue" pride and it's ancient antidote - humility.
Wednesday, March 11, 2026
Tuesday, May 21, 2024
Pride vs. Humility
"Pride makes us artificial, and humility makes us real." Thomas Merton
1, Humility is the key to gaining wisdom. "When pride comes, then comes disgrace; but with the humble is wisdom." Proverbs 11:2
2. God looks to the humble to work through. "All these things my hand has made, and so all these things are mine, says the LORD. But this is the man to whom I will look, he that is humble and contrite in spirit, and trembles at my word." Isaiah 66:2
3. Humility prepares the avenue to your heart for God's grace. "But He gives more grace; therefore, it says, 'God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble." James 4.6, 1 Peter 5:5
4. Humility can defuse arguments. "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."
5. You don't have to put on a false front when you are humble. Jesus warned the disciples, "Beware of the Pharisees, which is hypocrisy." Luke 12:1
Bonus: "Humility is the foundation of all the other virtues; hence in the soul in which this virtue does not exist, there cannot be any other virtue except in mere appearance."
Jeff Cavins, Daily Reflection, May 21 Pride vs Humility! Mark 9:30-37
Friday, June 2, 2023
The Insolent Pride of Man
"Such disregard for the authority of sacred and divine law in public life, Leo wrote, “almost tends to the removal of the Christian faith from our midst, and, if that were possible, of the banishment of God Himself from the earth.” He went on to describe a state of affairs which bears an uncanny resemblance to our own turbulent and anxious times:
When men’s minds are raised to such a height of insolent pride, what wonder is it that the greater part of the human race should have fallen into such disquiet of mind and be buffeted by waves so rough that no one is suffered to be free from anxiety and peril? When religion is once discarded it follows of necessity that the surest foundations of the public welfare must give way, whilst God, to inflict on His enemies the punishment they so richly deserve, has left them the prey of their own evil desires, so that they give themselves up to their passions and finally wear themselves out by excess of liberty.
This is one of the great themes, perhaps the great theme, of the pontificate of Pope Leo XIII. When man, in his pride, attempts to “free” himself from God, he instead becomes a slave to his passions. When man forgets God, he loses sight of himself."
Thursday, June 1, 2023
Wednesday, December 7, 2022
Pride is heavy...
Friends, in today’s Gospel, Jesus offers to free us from the burden of our pride.
What is it that makes our lives heavy and weighed down? Precisely the burden of our own egos, the weight of one’s own self. When I am puffing myself up with my own self-importance, I’m laboring under all that weight. Jesus is saying, “Become a child. Take that weight off your shoulders and put on the weight of my yoke, the yoke of my obedience to the Father.”
Anthony de Mello proposed the following parable to describe us prideful souls. A group of people sit on a bus that is passing through the most glorious countryside, but they have the shades pulled down on all the windows and are bickering about who gets front seat on the bus. This is the burden of pride: preferring the narrow and stuffy confines of the bus to the beauty that is effortlessly available all around. This, of course, is why Jesus can say, “My yoke is easy and my burden is light.” What the Lord proposes is not a freedom from suffering but, what is much more important, a freedom from the self.
Gospel Reflections
Monday, October 10, 2022
Wednesday, August 10, 2022
Patient Humility
Pride is always ready to take offense, and with this disposition to resent slights and injuries, how is it possible to live in charity? When we find two persons who are prone to disagree and to whom reconciliation is difficult, we cannot be far wrong in concluding that both are full of pride. Therefore, it is obvious that charity cannot exist without humility.
It is for this reason that St. Paul, after having exhorted Christians to brotherly love, advises them at the same time to be humble: “But in humility, let each esteem others better than themselves,” (Phil. 2:3), for well he knew that brotherly love cannot endure without humility. For where pride exists, there will also arise contentions, quarreling and strife: “Among the proud there are always contentions” (Prov. 13:10).
Let us accept the apostolic admonition, and do not let us blame others for their pride when they cause us displeasure, but rather blame ourselves for not knowing how to bear that displeasure with humility. Let us begin by acquiring that patient humility ourselves which we desire so much to see in others, remembering that it is not through the patience and humility of others that we shall be saved, but by our own.
