Allow me to remind you that among other evident signs of a lack of humility are: --Thinking that what you do or say is better than what others do or say; --Always wanting to get your own way; --Arguing when you are not right or -- when you are -- insisting stubbornly or with bad manners; --Giving your opinion without being asked for it, when charity does not demand you to do so; --Despising the point of view of others; --Not being aware that all the gifts and qualities you have are on loan; --Not acknowledging that you are unworthy of all honour or esteem, even the ground you are treading on or the things you own; --Mentioning yourself as an example in conversation; --Speaking badly about yourself, so that they may form a good opinion of you, or contradict you; --Making excuses when rebuked; --Hiding some humiliating faults from your director, so that he may not lose the good opinion he has of you; --Hearing praise with satisfaction, or being glad that others have spoken well of you; --Being hurt that others are held in greater esteem than you; --Refusing to carry out menial tasks; --Seeking or wanting to be singled out; --Letting drop words of self-praise in conversation, or words that might show your honesty, your wit or skill, your professional prestige ... ; --Being ashamed of not having certain possessions ... (Furrow, 263) |
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